Yesterday I opened a bill from UC Davis. It was for an overage I owed for an annual exam last year. I found another invoice inside my bill for a different patient. I set it aside. When I later grabbed my checkbook to pay the bill, I looked again at the second invoice. It was for a person who lived in Galt. To be honest, my first instinct was to throw the invoice into the trash because it wasn't mine. My hand was 6 inches away from the shredder. Nobody would know. But I couldn't throw it away. I would know.
That little voice in my head said, "How would you like it if somebody threw away your invoice? Just do the right thing." So, I stopped what I was doing, addressed an envelope, wrote a quick note of explanation, put the bill inside, stuck a stamp on it and mailed it.
When clients are looking at homes, I try to point out the negatives along with the positives of each home. Sometimes buyers don't want to hear the negatives, but it's my job and my legal responsibility to tell them what I know. It's also the right thing to do. Maybe that buyer shouldn't buy a home at all? If that's the case, I let them know my thoughts, even though it may mean I don't get paid dime one.
It's not always easy to tell short sale sellers that they may face tax consequences -- that a hard-money second lender might possibly go after a deficiency judgment -- that they may not be able to buy another home for several years after the short sale -- but it's my duty to disclose, and to suggest that sellers obtain legal and tax advice because a Sacramento short sale agent can't give that type of advice.
At the end of the day, we all have to live with our own conscience. My advice to anybody who hesitates is just do the right thing.
The Short Sale Savior, by Elizabeth Weintraub, coming in June 2009.
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Elizabeth Weintraub is an author, home buying columnist for The New York Times-owned About.com, a Land Park resident, and a Land Park real estate agent who specializes in older, classic homes in Land Park, Curtis Park, Midtown and East Sacramento. Weintraub is also a Sacramento Short Sale agent who lists and successfully sells short sales throughout the four-county Sacramento area. Call Elizabeth Weintraub at 916.233.6759. Put 35 years of real estate experience to work for you. Broker-Associate at Lyon Real Estate. DRE License # 00697006.
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